"Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be yet wiser: teach a just man, and he will increase in learning." (Proverbs 9:9)
One of the most difficult lessons for Christians to learn is how to
take criticism. The natural reaction is one either of resentment and
desire to lash back, or else one of discouragement and quitting.
Neither is honoring to the Lord.
Remembering that "all things work together for good" (
Romans 8:28)
to the sincere Christian believer, we should first of all consider the
criticism as potential "instruction" from God as well as from the
critic. We should seek to test the criticism as objectively as
possible, in light of our actions and the Scriptures, the most probing
critic of all. "For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper
than any twoedged sword . . . and is a discerner |literally
'criticizer'| of the thoughts and intents of the heart" (
Hebrews 4:12).
If it turns out that the criticism is even partly valid, then the
obvious course is to take the appropriate remedial action, and to do it
as prayerfully and graciously as possible.
On the other
hand, if an honest evaluation of the criticism reveals it to be
unwarranted, or perhaps even deliberately false and hurtful, then our
example becomes Christ Himself. He never did or said anything to merit
criticism (as we do, far too often), but He received it in great
abundance.
What was His response? "When he was reviled,
|he| reviled not again; when he suffered, he threatened not; but
committed himself to him that judgeth righteously" (
1 Peter 2:23). We should remember that "a soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger" (
Proverbs 15:1).
By all means, we must not become discouraged into retreating or
quitting, "For consider him that endured such contradiction of sinners
against himself, lest ye be wearied and faint in your minds" (
Hebrews 12:3).
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